New Years Eve 2013 resolution time. We are all familiar with the almighty resolutions list we create for ourselves each year, most of us are also aware of exactly how long that list usually lasts, so this year I wanted to create a different kind of list. I didn’t want my list to limit me as much as previous lists have e.g. lose 10kgs – things like this on your list are not fun, they are a chore, for those who are successful with things like this I truly salute you, but I hate them on there. So, since this is my list, this year I put what I wanted on it rather than what I thought I should put on it and so far it has been a lot more fun keeping to the list.
- Try new things – Challenge yourself.
- Lead a healthier lifestyle – you can combine this with trying new things – e.g. new recipes, new foods, new activities, have fun with it.
- “Home truths” – Don’t lie to myself or blame things on others that are all on me.
- 52 books in 52 weeks – read 52 books in a year – try new authors, things you wouldn’t normally read and finally read the Hobbit – you have had it for years!!!
It’s a short list, but I have stuck to it for four months and it has been great! Here’s some of my progress:
Try new things:
Home made waffles – I have eaten waffles before, but never cooked them… so good!
Salmon steaks with rocket and walnut salad – never had either before and cooked it all… I am now a salmon lover! (Not big on seafood generally)
Roast pork loin with roast apples, onion, zucchini and potatoes – I have eaten pork before, but not pork loin and never with roast apples – it was amazing!
Tried my hand at cake decorating for my brothers birthday, he loved it!
Until yesterday I had long hair… now… big change!
I have the ingredients to make individual baileys cheesecakes… that’s going to happen really soon
I am currently devising an Easter activity for my nieces and nephews (oldest is 2.5) which will not cover them in goop whilst still being fun – will post my failure or success haha.
Nieces and nephews are still a little young for tonnes of chocolate so I am thinking decorated cupcakes for easter – watch this space.
This has ended up being mostly food based, but it is interesting how slight changes have made big differences, where before I would maybe munch on some potato chips I now go for black sesame brown rice crackers – so good! I have a bigger lunch now, rather than just a sandwhich I have salad as well which keeps me fuller and sometimes I don’t even suffer from 3.30itis 🙂
The harder part has been soft drinks, whilst I never had tonnes of it – maybe a glass a day I am now trying to not have any. It’s weird, when you have not had it for some time and you have a glass it makes you feel thirstier than you were originally!
I came up with this because – well it’s kind of complicated, but I just started seeing so much violence in everyday life and it really bothered me. When I say violence I am being extremely general, in addition to all the horrible events I see in the news I mean the discourteous way people deal with each other on a daily basis. People are so self-involved these days that nothing external seems to penetrate their tiny universe. I had already started thinking along these lines, but decided to include it in my resolutions one day after a woman at the shops was on her phone in her own world and smacked into my trolley (which had my 2 year old nephew in it), lost her balance and impaled my foot with her stiletto. I helped her up and asked if she was ok, to which she replied, “why don’t you watch where you are going you fat f*&#!” My reply, “I might be fat, but you are ugly inside and out and no amount of hooker make up or heels can fix that. Get your potty mouth away from us, I don’t want my kid exposed to your filth” I am not going to lie, that come back felt good. I felt I had managed to knock her down a peg or two without stooping to her level, but hobbling home I found myself reflecting and wondering if I could have done more to avoid that scene. I decided I needed to be more reflective on my behaviour on a full time basis to try and balance out some of the ugly karma in this world 🙂
52 books in 52 weeks
LOVE, LOVE, LOVE THIS CHALLENGE!!! Please see progress below:
|Earthly Delights: a Corinna Chapman mystery (2004)||Greenwood, Kerry|
|Heavenly Pleasures: a Corinna Chapman mystery (2005)||Greenwood, Kerry|
|Devil’s Food: a Corinna Chapman mystery (2006)||Greenwood, Kerry|
|Trick or Treat: a Corinna Chapman mystery (2007)||Greenwood, Kerry|
Jan 27 – Feb 2
|Forbidden Fruit: a Corinna Chapman mystery (2009)||Greenwood, Kerry|
|Cooking the Books: a Corinna Chapman mystery (2011)||Greenwood, Kerry|
|Babies in Waiting (2012)||Fiore, Rosie|
|Kushiel’s Dart(2001)||Carey, Jacqueline|
Feb 24–Mar 2
|Kushiel’s Chosen (2002)||Carey, Jacqueline|
|Kushiel’s Avatar (2003)||Carey, Jacqueline|
|A Storm of Swords (A Song of Ice and Fire)||Martin, George R. R.|
|A Feast for Crows (A Song of Ice and Fire)||Martin, George R. R.|
|A Dance with Dragons (A Song of Ice and Fire)||Martin, George R. R.|
|14 – Mar 31 – Apr 6||Divergent||Roth, Veronica|
Let me know if you want information on the books I have read, happy to share thoughts or recommendations. If you have a recommendation for me to include in my 52 books in 52 weeks journey please recommend away 🙂